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If the guy who is topping is a considerate lover, he'll make sure that you are taken care of either before, during or right after he has had his reward. If the guy topping doesn't take care of his partner, he is either very selfish or just doesn't know how. For a lot of bottoms, it's hard to stay "up" during . However, like I said, if the top is a good lover, you should be satisfied as well. If being a bottom doesn't turn you on, then demand versatility. The more experience you get with men, the better you'll be able to control this. Happy experimenting!!