I lost my baby at 36wks last month.Allah might have a reason.Can you help me count my blessings please.?

Quit complaning and get over it. There are people who can never bear children in this life. Allah (SWT) knows what is best for us and we as Muslims should not question Allah's (SWT) judgment. There are people who in a far more horrible condition than you. Look at the poor people in Chile and Haiti who had those two earthquakes and lost loved ones in the rubble. Look at all the children in third world countries who are dying of AIDS and malnutrition. Look at your Muslim brethen in Iraq, Somolia, Sudan, Palestine, Lebanon who are suffering. Look at the children in second and third world countries who are forced to work in sweatshops from an hour before dawn until well after sunset for $0.25 (maybe less) a day because their parents are starving to death. Look at all the little girls who are sold into prostitution because by their parents because the family is starving to death or only wants sons. Look at China who throws girls into orphanages or leaves them to the elements because boys are seen as a gift from Allah (SWT) while girls are nothing but mere baby makers, burden upon the parents, cattle! Look at how many unborn girls are subjected to female infancticide in India! Look at how there are Muslim women who lose their husbands to war and how they are forced to become prostitutes and beg on the streets to survive and feed their hungry babies and children.